“Pulling Out Is a Reliable Way to Prevent Pregnancy”
We wish it were that simple, but nope! The withdrawal method (aka “pulling out”) is one of the least reliable forms of birth control. Pre-ejaculate fluid can contain sperm, and let’s be honest, timing things perfectly in the heat of the moment is easier said than done. Studies show it has a high failure rate, so relying on it alone is risky. Condoms, birth control pills, or IUDs are way more dependable, and they take the stress out of trying to “pull off” perfect timing.
“Pain During Sex Is Normal”
A little discomfort at times (especially early on or without enough lubrication) can happen, but ongoing pain? That is not something you should just accept or “get used to.” Persistent pain could be your body’s way of saying something is off, maybe an infection, dryness, or even a condition like endometriosis or pelvic floor tension. It could also just mean more communication, patience, and foreplay are needed. Bottom line: sex should never hurt. If it does, talk to a doctor, and do not be shy about asking questions, your comfort matters.
“Only Penetrative Sex Can Spread STDs”
STIs do not really care how you are having sex. Oral, anal, or even close skin-to-skin contact can transmit infections like herpes, HPV, or syphilis. So, if you are thinking, “No penetration = no risk,” think again. Protection is not just about pregnancy prevention; it is about staying safe. Condoms, dental dams, and regular STI check-ups keep things worry-free, and pleasure focused.
“Can the hymen only be broken by penetrative sex?”
Nope! The hymen is a thin membrane at the vaginal opening, and it can stretch or tear for many reasons such as exercise, sports, or even normal movement. Its condition does not prove virginity, and the idea of “checking” it is completely unreliable and outdated.
“Only Penetrative Sex Is Pleasurable”
Spoiler alert, pleasure does not start and end with penetration. For many people, clitoral stimulation, oral sex, sensual touch, or just being emotionally connected feels way more satisfying. Everybody is different, and there is no one-size-fits-all formula for pleasure. The key? Communication, curiosity, and taking the pressure off the “main event.”